Sunday, January 8, 2012

The Year That 2011 Was..


Finally, 2011 comes to an end. Yet another year. Time seems to be moving way too fast, most would say. While for some its another year added to their age, for others it has been a long year. But whatever said and done, it has been quite an eventful year which I'm sure most would agree upon.

2011 started on a bright note, after all, it was the beginning of the second decade of the twenty first century. The world was hopeful for a relatively stable year. But the opposite happened and thus, 'stable' is the last word one can use to describe 2011.

The optimism was short lived. Mass revolts against the autocracy began in Tunisia. Men, women and youth stormed the streets and this became the Arab world's fastest developing revolts in the history. This was baptized as the Jasmine Revolution. It wasn't long before it spread to other countries.
Inspired by the protests in Tunisia, a similar revolution began in Egypt towards the end of January 2011 against Hosni Mubbarak who had been Egypt's president since 1981. Accompanied with nationwide curfews and bans on social media, several civilians lost their lives.
In February 2011 this unrest seemed to spread to Libya too; a North African oil-rich nation. It had spent some 40 years under the erratic leadership of Colonel Muammar el-Qaddafi. A struggle that lasted for over 6 months ended with the killing of Qaddafi.
Similar unrest was experienced in Yemen, Bahrain, Morocco and Syria. In Israel, over 4 lakh people marched on one single day to protest against the falling living standards.
While the unrest spread in the Arab world, the need for a Jasmine Revolution in China amongst the people was building up. This was curbed by new restrictions on the internet and banning of several social media networks.

In the west, several European countries like Britain, Spain and Portugal saw protests in response to the austerity.

India did not fall behind when it comes to mass protests in 2011. India saw one of the most popular building against corruption in recent times. Anna Hazare, supported by thousands, went on an indefinite hunger strike demanding for the desired Lokpal bill to passed by the parliament. Inspite of the mass protests, the governing party - Congress - has been able to hold up the bill and its still yet to be passed.

 Japan was rocked by a massive earthquake, early March 2011. An earthquake measuring 8.9 on the richter scale was accompanied by a massive 30 feet high Tsunami. Killing millions, it was the worst tragedy to hit Japan since the Hiroshima-Nagasaki bombings during second world war. As if that wasn't enough, due to the damage caused, there was fear of a nuclear leak in Japan's nuclear plants. With its deadly radiation, the world was once again shown the dangers science and technology brought with it.

On the economic front, 2011 hasn't be too good either. The Euro zone faced a major debt crisis with countries like Greece o the verge of bankruptcy. European banks struggled to obtain funds and the European Central Bank feared a major credit crunch.
USA's economy struggled when there was a failure in obtaining political consensus on how to reduce the deficit. In August, just before the Treasury Deadline, the Congress managed to increase the limit on the federal debt ceiling.
But this did not stop Standard & Poor's from downgrading America's AAA rating for the first time in its history which further weakened the economy's footing.
India faced rapid inflation characterized by tremendous rise in food prices. Petrol prices were hiked several times accompanied by some 13 interest rate hikes in less than 18 months. Rupee value with respect the US dollar weakened.
The UN forecasted that the world is sinking into another recession with IMF lowering the overall growth forecast for 2012 to 2% from 4%. Brazil and China tried to ease monetary policy to enable growth and India tried to control its ever increasing inflation by raising interest rates. Thus the hot economies have started to 'cool' down.

The year also saw the demise of the likes of Steve Jobs, Jagjit Singh, Dev Anand and Shammi Kapoor.

But where the atmosphere was gloomy both politically and economically, the Indian population had two amazing experiences. First, India, very successfully hosted the Formula One with a world class race track and well appreciated after parties with the likes of Lady Gaga.
Secondly and most importantly, India won the ICC World Cup 2011 after 28 years! Where cricket is a religion, the whole country stopped celebrate this victory.

According to some difficult times lie ahead. The world may sink into a much worse depression and general unrest among the people seems to be rising for various reasons. But when a gloomy year is being expected, I'm reminded of the recent Coca Cola advertisement. 'Where some are worrying about the world ending in 2012, there are 50 lakh people texting new year wishes.'


So as we begin with this new year I would conclude with these lines-

"Umeedon vali dhoop, Sunshine vali aasha;
Rone ki vajah kum hai, Hasne ki vajah hai zyaada."

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Letting Go.

Letting Go. Letting go quite literally means the act of freeing something; withdrawing hold. While in its simplest terms it may imply the obvious act of letting go of say the door you're holding; most often it may lead to a more emotional and a deeper implication.

This term is so often used in our day to day lives that we don't even realize. Sometimes by a rebellious teenager in fury wanting the freedom to decide - "Let go off me, mum and dad"; sometimes by a lover or a friend and sometimes it just meaning letting go of a memory.

As time passes, we all have to do this. Sometimes knowingly, sometimes unknowingly. As kids we've all felt that sadness when we've lost our favorite blanket we slept with or a toy. As adolescents we've hurt ourselves in losing that best friend or even just a crush.
The transformation from a child to an adult and then till the time death takes the best of us, we are all leaving something behind- innocence, love, memories, things, loved ones, etc. I guess that's the reason why we quite often say, "Life moves on."

In its philosophical meaning for most people what it means is to let go of their loved ones through the dying process. And for most the image of holding their loved one comes to mind (an image that supports the paradoxical nature of letting go) when thinking of this term.

"Let it go. If its meant for you, it will come back."
Quite a common quote. Most of us have read or heard of it somewhere or the other. They say letting go means not to cling to your emotions about anything.
I see people very frequently holding onto pain. Most of us do so. Sometimes we are just not able to let go of the thought of the person we've lost. We cling to that pain of loss. Many a times people don't even realize that they haven't been able to free themselves from that experience even after several years. We hold onto grudges- consciously or unconsciously.
If you aren't thinking about it, its there in your conscious- how you lost that person, or how you had to part from something or how something or someone hurt you. Its always there.

So what's so bad about holding on to these memories? What's bad is that you're never able to completely free yourselves. You can't open yourself fully to new experiences. You may think you are able to, but your subconscious involuntarily starts a defense mechanism.





Letting go is not always a bad thing. Infact it can be a freeing experience. It makes you more alive; it let's you love fully (among other things).
We all have fell that joy when as kids we let the balloons free in the night sky. That's what you can make of it and feel the same joy.
So let go. Let that pain, the memories, the grudges go. Free yourself. And feel alive.

Saturday, August 27, 2011

The Other Side.

              "Too many people grow up. That's the real trouble with the world, too many people 
         grow up. They forget. The don't remember whats it like to be 12 years old. They patronize."
                                                                              - Walt Disney
Growing up. Two words that are used often. We use them in various situations- sometimes in anger, sometimes in hope of the future, sometimes while reminiscing about the past.
Never do we really think and ponder over the meanings behind the words and the phrases commonly used by us or on us. But usually that's a good thing. Sitting and analysing every little thing might not be such a good idea.

As kids, we'd all wanted to grow up. "Being an adult would feel so cool." You can drive. Drink. You don't have curfews to meet or homework to finish. That's what we'd imagine. But as adults, every body wishes they could go back to being a kid. Life was so much more easier then. You weren't expected to be responsible then. How one misses games of hide and seek, lock and key. The best thing was the fact we had the luxury of making mistakes. Now, we live a life with no teachers and yet every little mistake may have a big consequence. In the simplest of words, I'd put it as, "The other side of the fence is always greener."

A while ago I randomly happened to watch a certain Swami Parthasarthy's interview while browsing through different channels. These days with uncertainties rising in every sphere of life many of us turn to god or to 'gurujis' to find answers and happiness. Anyway he said something very very simple that we all know but fail to acknowledge. The gist of it is:

He was asked, "Why are we unhappy?"
We are because we are always unsatisfied. We're always looking for something more in life. And in that search we forget to see what we already do have. For example, in the summer season people wish for winter. But when winter comes, people wish for spring. We know the nature will take it's course yet we lust for something else and in that search we fail to enjoy what we have.

Very simple and very true.

As we grow up, we begin to learn things that may contradict to the beliefs imbibed in us through our formative years. Is that tragic? There be several things. For one, we all believe in happy endings. And we all believe that we'll find our perfect little world that we imagine. That's maybe because of the fairy tales we read as kids. But as you grow, you realise it's not really easy to find that perfect world. Sometimes impossible. And in that you start adjusting to things rather than questioning the wrong.
Another thing is that as kids  we are taught and feel that an adult can't be wrong. Your father can't make mistakes. Or your grandmother has full knowledge on whats wrong and whats right. But gradually we begin to realise that everyone in this world will disappoint you at some point of time. Whether it's your parent or your spouse or your best friend, sibling or grandparent. And you'll probably do the same.
If one comes to think of it initially when this realisation dawns upon self, it can be a little disappointing. No not disappointing, rather I can't find the word for that particular feeling. But somehow it gives birth to a tiny voice inside you, telling you, you have to figure the world on your own.

            "The day the child realizes that adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; 
   the day he forgives them,  he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise."
                                                                          - Alden Nowlan

I would say, everyday, everybody is making mistakes. Everybody is finding answers. Everybody is learning, figuring out what they want out life. Everybody is still growing up.



Saturday, July 23, 2011

Toh Zinda Ho Tum..



"Jab jab dard ka baadal chaya
Jab ghum ka saya lehraya
Jab aansoo palkon tak aya
Jab yeh tanha dil ghabraya
Humne dil ko yeh samjhaya
Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai
Duniya mein yunhi hota hai
Yeh jo gehre sannate hain
Waqt ne sabko hi baante hain
Thoda ghum hai sabka qissa
Thodi dhoop hai sabka hissa
Aankh teri bekaar hi nam hai
Har pal ek naya mausam hai
Kyun tu aise pal khota hai
Dil aakhir tu kyun rota hai..."




"Ik baat honton tak hai jo aayi nahin
Bas ankhon say hai jhaankti
Tumse kabhi, mujhse kabhi
Kuch lafz hain woh maangti
Jinko pehanke honton tak aa jaaye woh
Aawaaz ki baahon mein baahein daalke ithlaye woh
Lekin jo yeh ik baat hai
Ahsas hi ahsas hai
Khushboo si hai jaise hawa mein tairti
Khushboo jo be-aawaaz hai
Jiska pata tumko bhi hai
Jiski khabar mujhko bhi hai
Duniya se bhi chupta nahin
Yeh jaane kaisa raaz hai..."




"Pighle neelam sa behta ye sama,
Neeli neeli si khamoshiyan,
Na kahin hai zameen
Na kahin aasmaan,
Sarsaraati hui tehniyaan pattiyaan,
Keh raheen hai bas ek tum ho yahan,
Bas main hoon,
Meri saansein hain aur meri dhadkanein,
Aisi gehraiyaan, aisi tanhaiyaan,
Aur main...Sirf main.
Apne hone par mujhko yakeen aa gaya."




"Dilon mein tum apni
Betaabiyan leke chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum
Nazar mein khwabon ki
Bijliyan leke chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum
Hawa ke jhokon ke jaise
Aazad rehno sikho
Tum ek dariya ke jaise
Lehron mein behna sikho
Har ek lamhe se tum milo
Khole apni bhaayein
Har ek pal ek naya samha
Dekhen yeh nigahaein
Jo apni aankhon mein
Hairaniyan leke chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum
Dilon mein tum apni
Betaabiyan leke chal rahe ho
Toh zinda ho tum"